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Sometimes you wish that girls just knew April 12, 2010

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I stumbled across this list of 41 things guys wish girls knew on facebook and I find some of these entries particularly true.

Sometimes you wish that girls just knew.

Here is the list.

1. Guys are more emotional then you think, if they loved you at one point, it’ll take them a lot longer then you think to let you go, and it hurts every second that they try.

2. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

3. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.

4. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him

5. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they’re going for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-he… method.

6. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

7. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they’re still loved.

8. Guys don’t care how gorgeous you are, if you’re a *********– Goodbye. (more…)


Helping April 11, 2010

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I stumbled across this on xkcd. And I feel that it powerfully affects me.

Quoting from “Tenth Speed Writer on the xkcd forums:

An older friend of mine was was talking with me about this the other day. Someone willing to go so far to take their own life, and do it for their own reasons, is beyond your help. All you can do is go beyond them to save their life; you can’t give them happiness.

Likewise, though… Someone who seeks suicide as a way to garner attention is either spoiled on it, or doesn’t know any better and is desperate for affection. It’s the same problem, though; they don’t want to find their own joy. If you give it to them, well… the “give a man a fish” proverb comes into play.

But I think I disagree as I did when someone told me 3 years ago. If you care enough about the person to want to save their life, and want to be friends with them, certainly that would help. If you become friends with them, and have fun together, and share the tough times as well as the good, certainly they can change their minds. You can’t “give” someone happiness, but you can give something that can create. Surely if you reach out a little, they would also reach out a little back.

10/04/2010 April 10, 2010

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Dengke has jealousy issues and needs to get over them already! :O

Geek comics :) April 10, 2010

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So sometimes I get really tired or bored so I geek and read comics from xkcd.com

They’re hilarious if you’re geek enough to understand them.

Here’s one that put’s my heart at ease.

Dating Pools (click to read the comic)

Good to know my chances are still increasing 🙂

Oh, and according to the rule it looks like I shouldn’t be dating girls under 18, and I’d have to be 28 to date phuong’s sister. lol just kidding.

9/04/2010 April 9, 2010

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So dad accused me of playing games on the net again when I wasn’t. So I stormed out of the house to buy lunch instead of eating food that he was going to cook. My hair was all frizzy and in a mess from my shower, and the clothes that I wore were awful: an old white v-neck shirt that sat funny, a 3 year old faded zip-up hoody, tracksuit pants that I’ve had since year 12 that are still two sizes too big for me, and a pair of horribly patterned slip-on shoes that were, however, the most comfortable things ever.

The point of me telling you all this? It felt so good being able to walk out of the house without the need to bother with my appearances. And the girl at subway was still nice to me.

I even had a chance to savor the comfort of the footpath under my feet, and the slight tingle of the sun on my skin as I walked around.

Then I ended up going to safeway and buying a 6 pack of V before heading home.

Fun stuffs.

In memory of Kristy April 7, 2010

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While procrastinating from study I joined in with my brother who was watching the sponge bob movie next to me. As the yellow sponge talked, state of melancholy drifted on to me and a memory forgotten drew itself into the front of my mind. Kristy. Kristy had liked sponge bob.

Kristy was a friend that had passed away 3 years ago. She was not a close friend, because we barely had a chance to hang out, but she was a very like-able one. I liked her, that was for sure. She was always so friendly, and tried hard to talk to you. Like you were important to her.  Maybe every single one of us (her friends) truly were. We would talk about all sorts of nonsense as adolescents: guys, girls, that kind of stuff. And it was fun and exciting getting to know her. I think we could have become good friends. But we never had the chance.

Kristy commited suicide early one morning in July 2007, she walked in front of a running train at Ringwood station.

She had been suffering from depression, and no one knew the true depth of it until it was too late. (more…)